I recently went on holiday to Mexico with my husband. However, he refused to take my photos and general shots. When I asked him why, he said he was not in the mood.
This behaviour upset me a lot. I noticed that he started hiding his phone from me.
Suspecting something wrong, I took his phone while he was in the shower and checked his latest messages. Opening a group chat with his friends, I cried. He wrote, “Imagine guys, with her weight she still wants me to take pictures of her! Where will she fit in the frame? She’s not the same as she was before the baby was born.”
I was devastated. Our marriage wasn’t perfect, but I believed he loved me and accepted me for who I was.
After that, I decided to get revenge. I posted my photos on Facebook with the caption, “I have accepted myself and am enjoying the moments. #SelfLove #TravellingMemories.” The response was overwhelming – friends and family supported me by sharing their stories of acceptance.
Seeing this outpouring of love, I felt an inner strength. At night, I met with my husband. “I saw your messages. How could you say that about me?” His face turned pale and he realised the pain his words had caused.
‘I didn’t realise how it would affect you,’ he stammered, tears in his eyes. “I was insecure after our baby was born and I took it out on you. I’m sorry.”
Instead of resentment, I chose forgiveness. “We need to support each other. Let’s work on this together.”
Touched by my response, he agreed to counselling. In the following weeks we attended therapy sessions, rebuilding trust. He became more attentive and I felt loved again.
After a few months, our relationship grew stronger. We continued to make memories, both in photographs and in heartfelt conversations. My act of vulnerability transformed our marriage, turning tears into laughter.
Our trip to Mexico was a turning point, reminding us that love isn’t perfect, but with honesty and effort, any challenges can be overcome. We learned to appreciate each other for who we are, creating a deeper connection.
