I’m not a hypochondriac. I don’t rush to WebMD every time I sneeze. But something about the way Dr Lemay hesitated – long enough for dread to creep in – made my fingers go cold on the phone.
She said: “I think you should get checked out. Just to be reassured. If Bear’s behaviour has really changed so suddenly, he might be feeling something. It could be nothing, but it could also be… something.”
I laughed again, because what else is there to do when the vet says the dog could have been diagnosed before the doctor? But the laughter didn’t reach my eyes. Bear, who had been cradled in my arm as if preparing for a storm, shifted slightly and whimpered softly. It was as if he knew I wasn’t taking it seriously.
The next morning I rang my GP. I told him I felt out of sorts and wanted a general check-up. I was given an appointment in a fortnight.
That’s too long.
So I went to the urgent care clinic. Told them I had chest pain and shortness of breath. That at least got me into the room quickly.
They did an EKG. Took some blood. Asked a few more questions. ‘Fatigue?’ Yes. ‘Headaches?’ Yes. ‘Do you have a family history of heart disease or cancer?’ Yes, both.
I was sent for a chest x-ray.
The nurse smiled, handed me a juice box like I was five years old, and told me the doctor would be in soon.
Fifteen minutes later he walked in with a clipboard and frowning eyebrows.
‘We found something.’
Those three words changed everything.
It wasn’t a tumour, not really. Not yet. It was a mass sitting just behind my sternum. It was pressing on my lungs, making it hard to breathe, making me more tired than I should be. I chalked it up to fatigue. Stress. Screens. Too much coffee and not enough water.
It could be benign, the doctor said. Or not. I needed a biopsy.
I walked out of the clinic with a referral, a stack of papers, and a head full of static. When I got home, Bear was waiting for me at the door. Not jumping, not barking – just waiting. It was like he knew.
I sat down on the floor and pulled him to me, burying my face in his fur. He made the same quiet whimpering noise again and snuggled up against me.
The biopsy was done two days later. Outpatient. Long needle, nervous nurse, calm doctor. When I returned, Bear lay at my feet like an anchor.
Then the results came back.
It was early stage lymphoma. Caught it in time.
When I got the call, my hands trembled. Not from fear, not really, but from disbelief. If it hadn’t been for Bear, I wouldn’t have gone until I did. I would have waited. I always wait.
Treatment started quickly – rounds of low dose chemotherapy, monitoring, scans. It wasn’t easy. There were days when I felt like I’d been flattened by a lorry. Days when I couldn’t get out of bed. Days when I cried into Mishka’s fur until I couldn’t cry anymore.
But here’s the thing: Mischka never left me. Not once. Even when I wanted to be alone. Even when I said out loud, ‘Go sleep on the couch like old times.’
He just looked at me, blinked slowly and stayed.
Six months later, my oncologist uttered the word ‘remission’.
I didn’t cheer. I didn’t pop the champagne. I just came home, threw my keys in the bowl by the door, and sank to the floor next to Bear.
‘We did it,’ I whispered, and he gave a double twitch of his tail.
But that wasn’t the end of it.
Because somewhere along the way, that mass in my chest did more than just shift my cells-it shifted my perspective.
I was thirty-six. Single. I worked in technology, remotely, in a quiet suburb outside of Denver. My days were filled with bug fixes, Slack threads, and coffee brewed in the microwave three times. I let life turn into a slow, grey cycle.
Bear noticed something in me – some kind of chemical shift, sure, but also something emotional. Some kind of quiet discord.
So I changed everything.
I quit my job.
Sold the house.
Bought a van.
It’s not the cliché ‘van life’ – I wasn’t trying to become an influencer or eat candy bars. I just wanted to live. For real this time.
Mishka and I spent the next year travelling. Yosemite. Zion. The Dakotas. I taught him to swim in Lake Michigan. He barked at elk in Montana. We slept under the stars in places with no cell service, and I wrote stories again. Stories I hadn’t touched in years. Stories about the people who lived and the dogs who saved them.
Somewhere in Arizona, I met Kara. She had a rescue greyhound and a camera always slung over her shoulder. We crossed paths three times in three different states until we finally sat down for coffee in Santa Fe. She asked me why I was travelling and I told her the truth.
‘My dog saved my life.’
She didn’t laugh. She just looked at Bear and said: ‘Good boy.’
We’ve been together ever since.
Bear is older now. Slower. His muzzle is more grey than brown, and sometimes he snores so loudly that I have to nudge him to get him to sleep.
But every night – every night – he sleeps snuggled up against me. Not just next to me. With me. It’s like part of my soul has fur and eyes that see things I don’t.
Sometimes I think about what might have happened if I hadn’t listened. If I had brushed off his sudden obsession. If I had told myself that I was too young, too healthy, too ‘good’ to be sick.
Would I have made it to the doctor in time?
Would I still be here?
There’s no way to know. But I do know this:
Bear knew.
Before the scans, before the pain, before the test results, he knew. And he tried to tell me the only way he could.
I was lucky I listened.
So if your dog suddenly starts acting strange – clinging, staring, refusing to leave – don’t dismiss it. Don’t say, ‘He’s just weird.’
Because sometimes love doesn’t bark.
It whispers.
And sometimes that whisper can save your life.
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