Why do older women dare to take such adventures?
Don’t they realise that they may soon get bored of their young lover? What will they do then?
Lidia Yatsuk became a divorcee in 2014. At that moment she switched to bringing up her grandchildren, so as not to go crazy from depression. And some time later, the pensioner met Jabbar. The man himself came from Zanzibar. He came to Kiev to study. They began to actively correspond on the dating site.
It was the daughter who registered her mother here so that she could have fun in the evenings. Lydia became very attached to the young man, and soon invited him to visit her.
The new acquaintance not only came to visit, but also began to court the woman. Their relationship was not at all like a friendly one. Lydia Mikhailovna found herself thinking that she loved this man. Jabbar was very polite and courteous, which captivated her. When he was about to leave for his homeland, he called his beloved with him. Since Lydia had nothing to lose, she took the risk. Her children were grown up, her grandchildren too – she had absolutely nothing to keep her in Kiev.
The woman put her flat up for sale and left for Zanzibar. The children were very angry with their mother, they were generally against her relationship with Jabbar. They also resented the fact that their mother had foolishly handled the inheritance. But when is she going to live for herself? The clock is ticking.
The woman now lives with her lover in Zanzibar. She doesn’t regret her decision at all. The only thing is that finances are difficult. In her spare time Lydia embroiders to make a contribution to the family budget. However, the pensioner’s eyesight problems have worsened, and doctors are very tight here. Her relatives do not want to communicate with her – only with her granddaughter Lydia keeps in touch.
Recently, Anechka even came to visit her grandmother.
What is your attitude to such unequal marriages? Do you believe that love binds these people together? Would you dare to get married like that?